Actress Sridevi on why freedom comes with responsibility. She talks about her school days, Learning curve and why this generation needs to be more patient
Q Tell us about your school days. Happy memories?
Those were the best days of my life. I got to mingle with friends from every nook of the country. Everyone brought a different perspective on life to the table. I learnt everything there is to learn from my teachers. Over all, a wonderful experience.
Q Do you think that’s not happening these days - exchange of ideas?
I think students get very little time to discuss and debate ideas other than those which involve the syllabus. That’s sad. And whatever time they get, children spend it in gossiping about random things rather than indulge in motivating debates. Smartphones are also a distraction and doesn’t let them think out of the box. It should be kept at bay.
Q Have you ever been bullied back in school?
I was very shy and wouldn’t speak unless spoken to. That made me an easy target. But fortunately, during those days students also indulged in constructive things. These concepts of bullying, phubbing (being snubbed by smartphones)... are all new and shouldn’t be encouraged.
Are you ready to handle this independence? Ask yourself. If yes, then go ahead and fight for it. If not, then prepare yourself to be worthy
of such freedom...
Q What about your daughters - have they had a smooth sail?
My daughters are quite independent. They are not afraid of voicing their opinion and making themselves heard. But they still need me to be around. There are certain decisions that they need to discuss with the family before arriving at a conclusion. Independence comes with a sense of responsibility, everyone should realise that before demanding freedom. Are you ready to handle this independence? Ask yourself. If yes, then go ahead and fight for it. If not, then prepare yourself to be worthy of such freedom.
Q What advice have you given them to be what they are??
They have grown up with the same values that we have been taught. And we made sure that they value good things and respect everybody, especially elders. That’s my advise for every child.
Q Do you think the educational system in India should also focus on life-skills?
Absolutely. There is no use in making geniuses who can’t fend for themselves. Schools should ensure that students develop other skills as well. Every girl and boy should know how to cook basic items and change a tyre by the time they are 18.
Q What would you say to students who are afraid of failure?
There is nothing called a “perfect life”. You have to be prepared to take on challenges and fulfil them. Whether you fail or pass while doing so is not in your hands. Having said that, our students have to be motivated to not give up and say, “ït’s okay, sab chalta hai (all is well)”. You should give your best and move on.
Q Do you have any last words to share?
The one thing that disturbs me about this generation is their lack of patience. They want instant results like instant noodles. It’s not always possible that you end up getting what you desired on a platter! Things will happen, wait for it.