Bhavana Jaison: Why Boys And Girls Can't Mingle In School?

    • Bhavana Jaison,
    • Standard: XII-B,
    • Atomic Energy Central School No 2,
    • Mumbai.

    • Publish Date: Nov 21 2016 6:30PM
    • |
    • Updated Date: Nov 23 2016 3:02PM
Bhavana Jaison: Why Boys And Girls Can't Mingle In School?

Do our schools follow the constitutional rights of equality? Do the schools even co-educated institutions teach children not to follow gender equality? Most of the co-educated schools , instead of building up a healthy, friendly relation between boys and girls, they try to build up a belief in the minds of the children that both boys and girls belong to different genders and can’t build up a healthy friendship with their suspicious looks.

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Vishakha Bhalla BOSCO SR.SEC.SCHOOL( PASCHIM VIHAR)

This is absolutely correct.. why are we suspected for something wrong by teachers and parents when we are having any discussion with any one of opposite gender, if we are true to them and ourselves then why are we doubted?

Aishwarya Iyer Deens Academy

Yes, that''s true. But in such a modern society, we must learn to stop thinking in an old fashioned way and allow girls and boys to interact freely. Gender equality is important and should be follwed in school too. Children should be allowed to enjoy childhood with everyone, irrespective of gender. Co-education is the best kind of education because one enjoys and learns more.

Harini MS NAGARJUNA VIDYANIKETAN

It''s weird to see that we make better friends with those of the opposite gender. Schools must never oppose friendship between genders. It''s like hampering the ability of a child to face his or her future

Ankit Kumar Kendriya Vidyalaya Tirumalagiri

In school everybody want equality between boys and girls. But, where the equality goes at the time of punishment. Why this mostly happen boys gets more punishment compare to girls?

Prakash.B Bethel Mat Hr Sec School

This is all due to the surrounding that we have.... we are able to mingle properly....

KAVYASRI R M Bethel Mat Hr Sec School

YES.This is the present situation in school.We are mostly doubted my teachers when we speak to the opposite gender.Gender equality must be inculcated in school.

gandwaid sai sri jahnavi P OBUL REDDY PUBLIC SCHOOL

exellent question placed...... even I feel why should not girls and boys not mingle with each other. for being friends you should not care which gender person are we making up our friendship...... and most of them say this is a big problem with generation kids. but NO this is not an issue , it is the stereotypical thinking of the people who restrict us from being friendly with boys.....

Yashita Nagpal BHARTI PUBLIC SCHOOL (SWASTHYA VHR)

With the time ,things are changing and so our mindset. It is not the scenario today. People suspect us only when we try to show them that we are going on a wrong track.Otherwise, it is ok to talk,laugh,share friendship with opposite gender.

Kashish Verma Bharti Public School Swasthya Vihar

Absolutely correct! I too feel the same that our schools even being co-ed don''t help us to build a healthy relationship with opposite gender because of our orthodox thinking and narrrow mindedness. But actually it should not be done because it not only destroys a child''s childhood but also changes his whole mindset.

Himanshi Dhawan Saffron Public School

Our orthodox society is to blamed. Whenever one sees a girl and a boy talking with each other or sitting together quite often, all have their eyes upon them. They are literally suspected. I don''t know why their friendship is considered unethical. And if such barriers are present in our country, then why our country has co-ed schools, then the schools should be convent? Gender equality and gender friendly-environment is the need of the hour.

Rathi Bethel Mat Hr Sec School

well if we speak with opposite gender it seems to be created as an issue and forms as ROOMERS and its make our parents teachers says to avoid mingle with opposite gender

Yashika Malhotra ST.FEROBEL SCHOOL.PASCHIM VIHAR

Yes..! It is true. Our frienship is seen something else. Even in this modern era, a girl and a boy cannot be best friends just because of the society. Why we are questioned on our friendship? We know what we are doing, we know our limits..! Why we can''t chill out with a squad..? This is so stupid, I mean com''on this is 2k16 and this orthodox mentality still exists.

Sanjay.M Bethel Mat Hr Sec School

When people start to talk about gender equality ,they are responded with suspicious looks. In this time of the world we must give way for equality and increase the understanding between students in a healthy manner

ritika sharma CARMEL CONVENT SCH SEC 9 CHD

What kind of co-educational school do we call it when all girls and boys are made to sit in two different rows. I think there should seriously be interaction and exchange of opinions between the two different genders

Kritika Malhotra Indira National School

Yes i agree. Most of our schools teach us not to mingle with the other gender which i feel is not right because in future we need the experience to deal with them in our workplace and many other such aspects. I feel it is the duty of our elders to let us be when we are not doubtful about ourselves.

Sujay Mohanty Ryan International School

Friendship made with opposite gender causes suspicion for apparently no reason. We are not talking about our marriage or others.

Harini.V Bethel Mat Hr Sec School

Gender equality should be promoted in schools. Teachers and parents think, talking to opposite is completely wrong. That''s quite disgusting. We make good friends with the opposite gender. If a girl speaks to a boy, the society puts wrong impression on the girl. Similarly if a boy speaks to a girl, he is said to flirt with girls. But the next generation must avoid the negative comments and build a good relationship with the opposite gender.

Animikha Dutta Dhar Mahadevi Birla World Academy

I think if we want gender equality or healthy relationships between genders,it should start from an early age.

Animikha Dutta Dhar Mahadevi Birla World Academy

Ankit Kumar Kendriya Vidyalaya Tirumalagiri In school everybody want equality between boys and girls. But, where the equality goes at the time of punishment. Why this mostly happen boys gets more punishment compare to girls? - You are correct punishments should be given equally.

Janusia Bethel Mat Hr Sec School

We are in the 21 century where even now our orthodox society thinks bad if students speak with girl/boy.It is really a pathetic situation.In schools/public places ,if we talk to a guy the society will think as a couple eve if we go with our own siblings and create nonsense rumours about us which will affect us and our family members too.

Brenda Marshal PADUA HIGH SCHOOL-MANKHURD

Yes that''s true...

Brenda Marshal PADUA HIGH SCHOOL-MANKHURD

Hmmm...

JIYA TOMAR B G S NATIONAL PUBLIC SCHOOL

I don''t really think that today the schools are biased towards a particular gender and really give more importance to one specific gender. This is as we have moved on quite further off from such mere distinguishers and intend to have a broader view. Girls and boys however need to understand that we are all equal and have our own special skills and abilities that shouldn''t ever be criticized and we must put apart gender differences and mingle together to create a healthy atmosphere.

SNEGHA.CK Bethel Mat Hr Sec School

Even at today''s generation when opposite genders mingle with each other the society makes a fuss on it.It is bad to think that friendship with opposite genders will always end in affairs.

Neelavani Bethel Mat Hr Sec School

yes its true ...now a day parents ,teachersor any eleder who see a two gender talking they create their own imagination ...we know what are limits are and what we should do but eleders dont certain thought of mind to understand finally they mess up things .

Sajal Jain BHARTI PUBLIC SCHOOL (SWASTHYA VHR)

Yes it is true. The schools try to enforce that boys and girls can''t be friends in the minds of the children by suspecting them. Why can''t they see their friendship in a healthy way? It is very difficult to understand.

Emima Thangapandi PADUA HIGH SCHOOL-MANKHURD

Yes u are right because school has a different lines for girls and boys. I myself have experienced it that boys also don''t like to mingle with girls . I was there in the science exhibition ward level competition and I was the only girl participating from our school,so when I was with the boys I tried to mingle with them but they were not even sitting if I will sit in a place.

Pragyamita Basu B.D.M. International

This is actually a fault in our Indian mentality. People are always looking by the corner of their eyes if a boy and a girl talks in a friendly way with each other.Even in co-ed schools some teachers have the tendency to think like that but above all Co-ed system rocks.

Rajashri Radjane Amalorpavam Higher Secondary School

This is true. In childhood, they are the one who make us mingle now how can we be as per their wish? This causes more expectations in looking at them. It is really disgusting.

V.Ananya D.A.V. Public School

We, the future of the country have the power in hand to change this outlook and foster a healthy relation between boys and girls .

Kashish Goel Bal Bharati Public School

this is because of the social evils curbing in our society

Mansi Jain PRESIDIUM SCHOOL INDIRAPURAM

It''s not about why cant we mingle. Noone is stopping us. But the only thing is it is going to harm our future. In such a age our hearts and minds do get confused. We are in such a stage that we are not able to conscience. We people still are immature. We aren''t that experienced as our teachers and parents who stop us to mingle. They know about the consequences of early mingling. So I don''t agree with it.

Riya gupta MOUNT CARMEL SCHOOL(DWARKA)

It is so true....we are living in this modern world but still we fail to change this mindset of opposite gender relationship doubts. And it is extremely important to change this attitude and develop an attitude of togetherness at the early stage in the schools without defining ones character because of the number of opposite gender relationships

Ishika New era

A so called CO-ED SCHOOL is a place where u are always doubted when you are chilling with your mates.This proves that gender equality can never be taught to the rising stars.The place where we develop into good personalities teaches us not to talk to opposite sex. Why?A co-ed mindset should be the one who sees no difference between a girl and a boy and also there will be no stupid allegations on the girl for talking to a boy. In all the cases the one who is suspected is the girl. Thanks.

Srividya AIR FORCE SCHOOLYEL

What students are doing is the reflection of what teacher or our elders taught them, so suspecting students means doubting on their teaching where it has gone wrong.So in a society, equality and relation is must

J.PRIYADHARSHINI REVOOR PADMANABHA MATRIC.HR.SEC.SCHOOL

its not true its not only in schools but also in our society they don''t want a healthy and friendly relationship with boys which can actually eradicate gender inequality but this action will only cultivate gender equality from a early age

Gopika S Nair Bethel Mat Hr Sec School

gender equality is not being practiced in many of the schools....especially in our country.... when someone sees a girl speaking to a boy...they just say that the girl is not good.... also..they dont tend to save the girl if she experiences any harassments from the opposite gender....

Gopika S Nair Bethel Mat Hr Sec School

even after many years...the girls character would be spoken bad.... but the other person just lives the way he likes...not being scared of the public... but a girl always faces the consequences.... we should shutter this inequality....

Mehek Sayyed Padua High School , Mankhurd

That''s quite right.Teacher''s should teach boys that girls are equal to them.Both of them have same right''s.And encourage girls to take part in more activity.And try to build self confidence in their mind.....

Mythili Iyer Greenwood High

Since the beginning of time, people that men were mightier than women. These thoughts could be there in the minds of students right now. Or girls do not like the habits of boys.

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